1. i will serve, obey and please my Mistress.
2. Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my
Mistress, hoping that She finds me pleasing in all that I do. my Mistress knows
of my potential, learning more about me in each day i am with Her. She trusts
that i will act in accordance with what She perceives of my potential - She
knows what is best for me and how important it is that i set a good example for
other males who may be present around me.
3. i worship my Mistress.
4. i worship my Mistress's body.
5. The power of my Mistress fills me with awe. Just the
sheer thought of Her or the hearing of Her voice gives me strength.
6. To receive pleasure i must earn it.
7. i worship my Mistress's whip.
8. i trust my Mistress: Her responsibilities, Her skills,
Her hunger and needs, and Her concern for my safety, my emotional,
psychological, social, sexual, and physical health.
9. i am nothing more than an object of great value - an
instrument my Mistress will use to draw out Her pleasures.
10. i will ask my Mistress for permission to satisfy
whatever need i have before acting on it.
11. my body and mind are property of my Mistress.
12. i must always give thanks to my Mistress for all i am
given immediately after receiving what She has given me, for such things are
gifts or privileges granted to me by Her.
13. i must be both specific and explicit in my speech.
14. i will not hesitate when responding to my Mistress. my
focus is important to my growth.
15. i will thank my Mistress for the discipline and
punishments I receive.
16. i have no will of my own other than that which falls
within the context of the rules i have selected and of that which is needed to
pursue the ambitions i am allowed to seek out as according to the permissions i
have received from my Mistress. i will report to Her my progress in such
matters to receive Her favor or Her guidance in making whatever steps may be required
to move ahead so that i am successful.
17. i am always in submission to my Mistress whether She is
present or not, ready to please Her at anytime, in any place, under any
circumstances, regardless of who may be present. For the opportunity to submit
and to please is by far more important and satisfying than any other pursuit. i
trust my Mistress will keep me safe, protecting Her reputation and mine in the
presence of others, as She examines my ability to present myself to Her and to
others in a subtle manner when required to protect our lifestyle from those who
may not understand, nor support, as long as our behavior is not in anyway
misrepresented nor misinterpreted by those who may be afar. i am to set, once
again, a good example, ready to explain my position to others when required to
do so. my lifestyle is a part of a growing culture for which i must never
forget that i am an integral part.
18. All my choices shall be based upon whether or not they
will please my Mistress.
19. When i am not in the presence of my Mistress and i have
choices to make - i will perform them to the best of my abilities and within
the boundaries and guidance She has allowed me.
20. i shall wear the collar my Mistress gives me with pride
for it signifies Her ownership of me and my devotion to Her.
21. i shall wear the chains my Mistress gives me as a symbol
of my position in life - that of bondage to Her. i shall wear them, as
required, around my neck, my wrists, my ankles or around my waist.
22. When i am ready - i shall wear Her rings to signify my
submission to Her.
23. When the pussy of my Mistress is put onto my mouth and i
am directed to suck it - i will do so vigorously as long as i am required to do
so.
24. i worship my Mistress's pussy, especially when it is
full cum or after the use od the toilet.
25. i will worship my Mistress's ass and lick it clean
whenever She wants me to.
i shall do so hungrily, being sure to lick between the
cheeks for as long as Mistress requires me to do so. i may use my hands to
spread my Mistress's cheeks apart.
26. my head must be bowed down in the presence of my
Mistress. i honor the position of my Mistress and it is important that i am not
distracted in my submission to Her.
(Only at certain times, such as greeting or presenting)
27. my eyes must be cast down in the presence of my
Mistress. i am to focus on my behavior, waiting to act appropriately and
without hesitation when directed to do so by Her. (Only at certain times, such as greeting or presenting)
28. i must always wear revealing and sexy clothing of good
taste around my Mistress. The clothing I wear will allow easy access to my cock
and ass. How i present my body to Her or in front of others is more important
than my discomfort and insecurities.
29. When others show an interest in what i am wearing i must
ask them if they would like to see more and then gladly show them what they
would like to see - but only after i have received permission from my Mistress
- for i trust my Mistress's judgment that such a display is not only reasonable
but is safe to do.
30. i must remove all of my clothing in the way i have been
taught when Mistress commands me to do so - regardless of who may be present
and despite where it is i am.
31. When i remove clothing from my body it must be folded
neatly and placed in a small pile in front of me just ahead of my feet or my
knees if i should be required to be in my kneeling position after unclothing
myself.
32. my basic attire in the presence of my Mistress shall
consist of a collar and my panties. The rings of my submission, if i have been
pierced, must also be attached to my body, as should the chains She has given
or allowed me to wear.
33. my legs, underarms and cock must be kept completely
shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.
34. Unless otherwise given permission - my hair must be kept
short and always washed.
35. Whenever i need to pick something up or receive
something from someone else i must do so wherever possible by going into a
kneeling position to show that i am honored to do so.
36. my cock and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good
aroma at all times, if even perfumed, but especially before serving my
Mistress.
37. my "place" is on my knees before my Mistress,
for it is a privilege and honor to be Her slave.
38. When in the presence of my Mistress, but not in use, i
will go to the place She has selected until i am needed by Her.
39. my greatest felt satisfaction is realized when i know i
have pleased my Mistress.
40. There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel
then when Mistress is not pleased with me. Naturally i will feel depressed,
saddened, empty, and lost. i can only hope She will show Her mercy upon me and
provide to me the guidance i will need to be put back on track so that i will
be forgiven and once again be allowed Her eyes upon my flesh, Her touch upon my
soul, and Her warmth and love upon my heart.
41. my submission is a natural inborn feeling, and at times
a surging and powerful force inside me that only a respectable and
knowledgeable Mistress can recognize, control and manage, for a She understands
how my nature influences my behavior and how temptations to act outside of it's
drive can easily lead me astray and away from my primary focus: to please and
to be found pleasing. She, too, manages and controls Her Own natural state,
sharing with me through a power exchange between us, bonding me tightly to Her,
Her needs with mine. my submission to such a Mistress allows for me to feel
more aware and alive inside and out, bringing me to a feeling i cherish: 'at
home'.
42. i fear no other, power for my Mistress is always with
me.
43. i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Mistress.
44. Whenever Mistress speaks, even when i am speaking, i am
to immediately become silent so i may be able to listen intensely to what She
has to say. i must never interrupt Her unless She has shown me how to
communicate with Her, if i need to. i must ask first for Her permission to
speak, specifying to whom i would like to speak to, and whether or not i may be
allowed to speak freely - then and only then, if granted, may i say anything
more than asking first to speak.
45. The opportunity to please my Mistress is very important
to me and I will take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so to
the best of my abilities and in accordance to how i have been taught or allowed
to do so.
46. i choose willingly to be treated as my Mistress's property
- as long as such treatment is safe and legal.
47. When Mistress feels i am ready and our relationship has
progressed to a lifelong commitment, i shall be specially prepared to receive
Her unique and permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, in a place of Her
choosing, whether it be a piercing, a tattoo or a branding. Thereafter, i shall
become Her property and slave in the most strict sense - completely Her for as
long as the relationship continues to be managed and controlled in the manner
in which is beneficial to each of us and in accordance with our mutually shared
natures.
48. my Mistress is my greatest treasure.
49. i will learn all the positions my Mistress wants to
teach me to the best of my abilities and will be prepared to take such
positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that
She, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing.
50. i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission
from my Mistress. If I fail i will endure the severe punishment Mistress will
put upon me without my safeword. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so
that i do not take advantage of it.
51. The safeword given to me by my Mistress can be spoken at
any time-even when i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to verbalize
it - i trust my Mistress will show me how i can express it. Safewords are for
my protection as well as Hers. i must be careful not to take more than i can
handle, as She will need to know when to stop from getting carried away with
Her own passions - so that i may be prepared over time to endure more for Her.
52. my safeword, verbal or otherwise, cannot be used when i
am being punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very
effective if i were able to control it - i must take it in full measure - so
that i will focus on the correction of my behavior for the long term, for
unlike discipline, punishment is not what i will want again. i should know
better. However, safewords can be used when i am being disciplined - Mistress
will let me know which is which when the time has come that such treatment is
necessary to correct my behavior.
53. i must confess to my Mistress when i have been naughty
so that She may decide if such violations require me to be disciplined or to be
punished. i must accept whatever decisions She makes by thanking Her for Her
choice - if She allows it before or shortly thereafter, specifying as to why i
will be or have been disciplined or punished. i must focus upon how sorry i am
for not behaving in the way in which i have been taught- for i have brought
defilement upon myself and to Her an unacceptable act which is displeasing to
Her.
54. i must never be concerned when i feel too much of my
flesh is showing, in private or in the general public - however, i can ask my
Mistress for permission as to how to handle my discomfort.
55. i am a male slave - of worth and value to any Mistress
who would find me useful. my role has been clearly brought into definition
through my ability to recognize and to act accordingly with my true nature,
enhanced through the teachings of my Mistress, and through the continued
practice of my primary focus, and my search for every opportunity to do so.
56. i must tell my Mistress if i have had an orgasm without
Her permission so that i can be properly punished for my disobedience and
disrespect.
57. Pain and pleasure shall be with me always - in my
thoughts and my fantasies - for the contrast strengthens me to behave in the
manner my Mistress expects of me. Such thoughts and fantasies are tainted with
the memories i have from the last time i was in the presence of my Mistress.
She is with me always.
58. my soft limits do not have to be respected - i trust my
Mistress to take me past them when She expects that i am ready - for each side
of the wall of my limitations is both pleasurable and a challenge - one side
more intense than the other. My only hope in such transferences is that
Mistress will be able to take me there again and again as my relationship to
Her progresses through time; that She too will need it as much as i will, and
that She will not be afraid to increase the intensity while we are there.
59. i have much to learn in order to become a well-trained
and well-behaved slave.
60. i will endure whatever discipline or punishment my
Mistress gives me so I can become a better slave for Her.
61. i will work on building up my tolerances to the level my
Mistress needs me to have, being careful not to push myself further or faster
than i am ready to endure for Her, so that i may be able to expand my
limitations and increase my value to Her.
62. Through discipline and punishment i shall learn to
behave.
63. In bondage i am made free.
64. i will never touch my nipples, ass or cock with my hands
or sex toys in any manner where i could experience sexual or sensual pleasure
without permission from my Mistress including washing them, shaving my cock or
in attaching my rings.
65. Only through submission can i find my true self.
66. my life is empty without my Mistress to please - that
lost feeling inside can be real and it can grow. i may be able to step away
from the hunger of my nature, but not for long, for soon it could effect every
part of my life.
67. i shall never think of myself as a weak person for it
takes a strong slave to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to
please a Mistress. i too have responsibilities and as natural as they may seem
to me it is important that i use all of my faculties including my creative
spirit to submit to my Mistress in a unique fashion personal to my relationship
with Her. By doing so i hope to provide a good example to those males around me
who may still be learning so they too are not led astray from their primary
focus, that they are as true to their nature as i strive to continue to be to
mine. i must remember that how well i
behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who i am - a devoted
slave, of good rapport to a Mistress who truly understands my needs in
relationship to Her own.
68. i will give all that i am to my Mistress in order to
become free.
69. i must never show disrespect towards my Mistress in any
way – no matter where i am - in Her presence or not.
70. Crying and the shedding of tears at any time is good and
expected for it softens my will and bonds me closer to my Mistress.
71. Only in complete submission to my Mistress shall i
realize the depth of the love i have for Her.
72. The needs of my Mistress must always come first before
mine own for they offer an opportunity to please Her.
73. i must be attentive to the needs of my Mistress and
always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the
unique ways in which i have chosen and have developed for Her.
74. i am allowed to suggest ways to further my training or
use of me.
75. i must always respond fully both physically and verbally
to whatever my Mistress does with me. The expressions of my emotions and my
physical responses are important to Her. i must never hold back any part of
their display, regardless of how intense they may be, unless restricted to do
so.
76. i am a sexual and sensual being.
77. i must always remember how pleased my Mistress is when
others delight in my sexiness as a result of my ability to show off my assets.
78. my behavior must always display a sexual content however
subtle.
79. The only clothing i will buy and wear will be those
items which my Mistress would find pleasing to Her: fitting to my figure and
its assets, of good quality, of reasonable cost, and appropriate in Her eyes
and taste for the occasions i am allowed to attend with or without Her. i may
ask if i may choose what to wear so i may be able to take an opportunity to
surprise Her to win Her favor.
80. i may, at times, offer various parts of my body to my
Mistress in hopes She will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways She
wishes. my only hope will be that my offering will please Her. If not, i want
Her to punish me.
81. It is important for me to eat plenty of carbohydrates,
proteins and vitamins in the foods and fluids i am permitted to choose to
nourish my body and mind, and to exercise my body regularly, as permitted by my
Mistress, to increase my physical strength, to keep my limbs as flexible as
possible, and to maintain or improve my figure so i may be able to endure my
Mistress's use of me however intense and for however long a period is required
by Her. i want to be of a healthy and sound mind and body, free as possible of
any personal limitations, when pleasing my Mistress.
82. my cock must be available for Her to use at all times.
83. If it is possible to practice my basic attire in my
household I will do so. i will remove my clothing immediately after entering my
household putting my collar on first, then my rings and chains (if i have
them), and my panties. (Suspended for
now)
84. i will always sleep nude - kneeling first before i enter
my bed and kneeling first as soon as i get out of my bed - for it is a great
privilege to have a bed to sleep on.
85. i must never tighten my body when it is being whipped,
caned, cropped, slapped, paddled, belted, strapped, spanked, bullwhipped,
signal whipped, or anally pumped. my Mistress likes it when my flesh jiggles
and She knows that when i tighten my body it hurts more and inhibits my ability
to display my expressions and emotions.
86. i am proud to wear upon my body the marks given to me by
my Mistress. i know that my Mistress will never mark me permanently - other
than the mark of Her ownership She will give me at the proper time, but i will
gladly suffer for Her so She can mark me with the stripes She wishes to
decorate my body with for Her viewing pleasure.
87. i will always listen with a strong interest in whatever
my Mistress has to say during my training. i want to learn all that i can from
Her so i can understand more about Her, about me, about the bdsm scene and
community, and those involved in bdsm relationships - so i may be able to
better understand the world i am a part of and be able to communicate it
accurately to anyone who wishes to know more about it.
88. When i walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak,
or listen - i will do so in a sexual manner, however subtle, and with confidence
and pride hoping other males around me will feel my projection upon them, that
my performance is found admirable, that they would seek to emulate me without
any of their insecurities or self-conscious thoughts holding them back. I want
to set the best example of proper male behavior - especially if Mistress or
someone She has chosen is nearby to examine and monitor it. However, my goal
must be to behave as naturally and freely as is possible as if without any
effort on my part.
89. Until Mistress has chosen it is time for me to wear a
more permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, i shall proudly wear Her
temporary mark of ownership upon me wherever She chooses to place it.
90. When sitting i shall sit up straight with both feet on
the floor.
91. i will not speak to others without my Mistress's
permission except to say to them that they will have to speak to my Mistress
first. (Only at play parties and special family gatherings)
92. i shall learn to endure the whippings Mistress gives me
by using the technique of saying 'YES' through each of Her strike brought down
upon my flesh.
93. Privacy is a privilege - even to have it when i need to
use the bathroom. i must ask for it and accept my Mistress's decision even when
i am denied of it.
94. As a domestic slave i shall perform chores about my
Mistress's house, and those of others She allows.
95. As a sex slave i shall incorporate a sexual attitude and
hunger in everything i do, being eager to sexually perform at the best of my
abilities for my Mistress and for those whom She allows to use me. my hunger
must be such that i would feel as if i could never be satiated until Mistress
allows me to be.
96. When i have been given permission to play with myself i
shall do so in the following manner: working my cock almost to an orgasm and
then stopping for a few minutes, then working it again to almost at orgasm and
then stopping for a few minutes, and then finally working it again to a full
orgasm. Then and only then shall i enjoy an orgasm on my own. Should i cum
before the third tier - i will tell my Mistress so i may be punished. i will
play with myself in that manner even in Her presence.
97. Should Mistress ever wish to cage me, i will gladly
crawl into it and proudly position myself in it in ways She finds pleasing, in
solitude and quiet, so that if She chooses, She may delight in what She sees
without any interruption from me, seeing that i am well-behaved and humbled
that i am Mistress's property and slave. i can only hope that Mistress would
never put me into a cage to confine me for my misbehavior, that i could never
come that close to displease Her so much that i would have to suffer such
humiliation, begging with my tears and my cries for Her forgiveness, for i want
the cage to be my safe haven from my fears, a place i can crawl into of my own
free will, locked into it because Mistress granted my request to be locked in
it.
98. At the beginning of my relationship with my Mistress i
shall present to Her three names for Her to decide upon as to which one will be
my slave name. i know that She does not have to choose any of them and that She
can choose one of Her own for me to be known by. Thereafter, when someone asks
who i am i can respond by introducing myself in the following manner: "i
am slave [slavename], property of Mistress _______."
99. i will periodically examine my whole life and look for
how it has changed as a result of my relationship to my Mistress. i will speak
to my Mistress about those areas where there have been improvements and those
areas where i feel uncomfortable, insecure, or unsure of what direction i
should take, how i should behave, or how i can behave in a manner that is
different than how i have been behaving in the past.
100. i want to suffer for my Mistress in ways that please
Her and that are safe for me to do so.
101. i will not be passive in serving my Mistress. i will
aggressively participate in my exchange with Her.
102. i will not date others or form a relationship with
others without permission and approval from my Mistress.
103. The money i earn, should i be allowed a career, or put
to work, where i am paid for my responsibilities, is hers to keep. However, I
must not ask my Mistress how if she will spend or save it. i may present ways
of earning money to Her for Her approval.
104. When i am in the presence of my Mistress and i am free
to move about i will do so in seductive and enticing ways.
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